Practice

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I offer online psychotherapy for individuals and couples.

With individuals: trauma, shame, and long-standing patterns that haven't moved with insight alone.

With couples: I look for what's driving the argument rather than the argument itself. Usually it's something one or both of you learned long before this relationship and it's still running. Once that gets named accurately, the fight you keep having tends to lose its grip.